don't hate the player, hate that he doesn't care....

This weekend I learned a very important lesson.  A lesson which I would have thought to be so damn obvious considering how realistically I live my life.  I was having Buffalo Wild Wings with my Maryn, and our friend (whom I won't name just to be safe).  He was talking to us about his girlfriends and his chicks on the side.  I told him that he isn't married and boys will be boys so if he's gonna cheat, wrap that ish up and DON'T GET CAUGHT.  Because honestly, the majority of men cheat, and what women don't know won't hurt them.  And sex is just sex unless you make it something more.  He responded by saying that he honestly could care less if he got caught.  I asked him how could he not care?  Wouldn't it bug him that he hurt his girl?  Wouldn't it hurt him if it was the other way around and she was the one sleeping around? He calmly, with much confidence said, "Well, I don't care.  I feel bad that she cares so much, but I just don't care.  IF YOU DON'T CARE, YOU'LL NEVER GET PLAYED."  Woah.  Did that just happen?  I had a reality check in exactly .2 of a second.  If I stop caring, then I'll never get played.  Easier said than done for a boy because they don't have feelings in the first place.  Us ladies have feelings that we must KILL to not care.  I can definitely kill off my feelings, especially if it means I won't get hurt.  It's just crazy to think that men have that advantage of not having those feelings in the first place.  But I can definitely function without feelings.  It actually is how I prefer things.  It makes so that I never have to worry about anyone but myself.  The only problem with not having feelings is that you never know what to do when feelings arise, so you tend to come off as bitchy instead.  Anywho, that was a very smart statement from that boy.  Lately, I have been running into guys that are saying some of the smartest things I have ever heard!  It's official.  I gotta stay thinking like a dude to stay on top.  Today, I stop caring.  And I won't care until there is a nice little rock on my left hand. Yea buddy.