loves lost, loves gone......

So I was listening to my baby Drake on my Ipod, and he was singing to me that "loves lost loves gone". What does that mean? I'd have to say that he is talking about the fact that love is so hard to find now-a-days, that it basically doesn't exist anymore. Amen to that Drake. I mean I don't want to be a bitter bitch or anything, and I do honestly love whomever and whenever I am in a relationship, but I don't believe that old school love exists anymore.  Men don't love like they used to, chivalry has disappeared completely.  No more opening doors, flowers just because only come in the first few months, phone conversations are shortened by texting, and not to mention that a lot of guys EXPECT to be spoiled rather than doing the spoiling.  And because of these turn of events, women have decided to play a man's game.  We have decided to build up walls that we refuse to let down.  Women now do things no one would suspect them to do: cheat, lie, have a dude on the side, toot it and boot it, etc.  NOT SAYING THAT'S ME OR ANYONE I KNOW, lol. I'm just saying it helps protect them from getting a broken heart.   I know a lot of women who are beyond tired of not being treated how they deserve to be treated.  But guys don't get me wrong, if you are dating a bitch or a hoe, she deserves to be treated like a bitch or a hoe.  A real woman that wants to be loved will love her man unconditionally until he proves her otherwise.  If she is a smart and confident woman, she will trust her man always, therefore there will be no drama.  But give us girls any reason to believe we are unappreciated... well your basically asking for us to turn into that crazy girl your friends tell you to drop.  I think that women have become these vicious ass creatures because of the men in the world who are ungrateful and take advantage of the good girls they come across.  If you come across a girl and you DON'T want to date her, be upfront, just tell her.  A girl that keeps it one hundred will simply make a choice wether or not to ditch the guy or to eff it and get it in.  That same girl will also know when that's all that it is.  Men obviously underestimate how vicious we think, they underestimate the fact that if you are straight forward, most of the time, you will avoid the drama.  Guys, if you come across wifey material, don't let her go.  But if she isn't the one, don't pretend, be upfront! Maybe then love can exist again..... Love can have a meaning instead of being something no one believes in anymore.