feet....hair pulls....cupcakes? what's with the weird sexual fetishes?

When Rhianna put her S&M video out, I was relieved to see that she touched up on the sexual fetishes of some people.  Not that it has never been touched up on before, but you know, a dose of reality is always nice. 

But technically, a fetish is to be obsessively fixated on either an object or a body part.  So S&M is being obsessed with whips and chains and either using them or getting them used on you.  Okay, that is pretty critical if you ask me.

When you sit and consider all the weird things people try to do during sex, S&M is one of those fetishes that I think isn't AS awkward.  Actually, I think it might just be oddly more tolerable.  All the tying up, the spanking, hair pulling, and crazy outfits are quiet normal in any sex talk I hold with my friends.  DEFINITELY not as excessive as a true person with an S&M fetish, but you know.  These sex talks aren't talks of fetishes to me.  It's just wild sex stories to me.

It's all the other things I find awkward. 

 Like food in the bedroom for instance.  That's weird!  I mean sure, whipped cream maybe (ugh, very ew. Sticky and smells like barf), but other than that, it's simply messy! I mean, aren't you busy doing a lot of other things?  Why would you add food into the mix?  Don't you want to lay down and cuddle after?  LOL, not clean up!

Or how about people with foot fetishes?  Look, I have beautiful feet.  I don't care what anyone says, I know my feet are gorgeous. Is it attractive for someone to tell me they want to suck on my toes? EFF NO.  But if you think my feet are pretty and you kiss them, or you massage them, cool..... Anything other than that.... AWKWARD.

On FB, when I asked people about fetishes, I got all these insane fetishes!  Choking till it's hard to breath.... sex with dead people..... sex with animals..... WTF are people thinking?


Sex is technically supposed to be this special time you share with a special person.  TECHNICALLY.  With the route our society has taken, some people even have a fetish of one night stands, so I am guessing all the "special" is thrown directly out the window.  I guess as long as you play it safe, and no one gets hurt in the process... more power to you.  Work that fetish till you can't no more! 


 I just hope one day that "making love" (like the intense, passionate, head over heels, once in a life time, kind of making love) will make it to the category of fetishes.  It just might make it to the top f the list for many I know. 

 I just find it so weird that simple things like  slightly choking, hair pulling, sexy outfits, and blindfolds with handcuffs are considered fetishes.  I mean honestly, I know WAY to many people that make this stuff a USUAL.  

So.... either all my friends are freaks.... or..... 

Yea, all my friends are freaks.