As I was watching my absolute fav old show, Sex In The City, Ms. Bradshaw asked a very interesting question. She asked:
"Why is it that women always have to find a lesson when bad things happen?"
She, of course, was referring to a break up between her and Burger, but you can honestly relate that question to any matter in a girl's life.
Why do women always assume a lesson is to be learned? Why does it not suffice that MAYBE, things just didn't work out?
LOL. I am not being insensitive, because I am one of them. I am always looking for the lessons God is trying to teach me in the event of a bad outcome. Whenever something bad happens or things don't work out how I would have liked them to, I figure that it is God's way of saying "Rose, pay attention." So I try to. I re-evaluate the steps I had taken, and which paths I took to get to where I am at. And usually where I am at, is an abyss of emotions.
Yes, it must be a woman thing. Because guys can honestly be bummed for a couple days and then get moving just as quick as the downfall occurred. Women choose to reminisce in their pain as long as possible. Why? Oh emm gee, someone please tell me.
So, I have realized that emotional pain is an option. You can CHOOSE whether or not to act upon them. From this day on, I am opting out of that. I have said before that I will no longer have feelings, and I think I am starting to believe myself more and more everyday. And NO, I am not just talking about relationship issues. I am not some scornful ex-girlfriend.
I am simply implying that life's bitchy ways are not going to make me stumble anymore.
I will dance in the rain when it ruins my day plans, laugh at the bills accumulating on my dresser, eat an extra chocolate bar when I feel fat, and kiss the ex boyfriend on the forehead for every tear I should cry.
Hey Feelings! Deuces....
"Why is it that women always have to find a lesson when bad things happen?"
She, of course, was referring to a break up between her and Burger, but you can honestly relate that question to any matter in a girl's life.
Why do women always assume a lesson is to be learned? Why does it not suffice that MAYBE, things just didn't work out?
LOL. I am not being insensitive, because I am one of them. I am always looking for the lessons God is trying to teach me in the event of a bad outcome. Whenever something bad happens or things don't work out how I would have liked them to, I figure that it is God's way of saying "Rose, pay attention." So I try to. I re-evaluate the steps I had taken, and which paths I took to get to where I am at. And usually where I am at, is an abyss of emotions.
Yes, it must be a woman thing. Because guys can honestly be bummed for a couple days and then get moving just as quick as the downfall occurred. Women choose to reminisce in their pain as long as possible. Why? Oh emm gee, someone please tell me.
So, I have realized that emotional pain is an option. You can CHOOSE whether or not to act upon them. From this day on, I am opting out of that. I have said before that I will no longer have feelings, and I think I am starting to believe myself more and more everyday. And NO, I am not just talking about relationship issues. I am not some scornful ex-girlfriend.
I am simply implying that life's bitchy ways are not going to make me stumble anymore.
I will dance in the rain when it ruins my day plans, laugh at the bills accumulating on my dresser, eat an extra chocolate bar when I feel fat, and kiss the ex boyfriend on the forehead for every tear I should cry.
Hey Feelings! Deuces....
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