Ladies, don't play yourself. You know the difference. It's just sometimes you fail to acknowledge them. AND why do you fail to? Probably because sub-consciously, you know that once you decipher the difference, you will find out you are dating a boy instead of a man. OUCH. Hurts a little bit huh? Well face it bitch, reality isn't always the more fun stroll. Sometimes that fantasy land you live in is HELLA comfortable.
Dating a boy is not as bad as it seems. BUT, that is only if you know that the "boy" you are dating will become a man soon enough. Unless you want a boy your whole life.... ew. And to be honest, if you are dating a boy, and you are unhappy about it, take a second to re-evaluate your life decisions. You have no one to blame but yourself. You choose to date him and keep him.
Being that I am around so many guys all the time, I have come to realize that most guys are in fact "men" when they are in men circles, but when it comes back time to being the "boy"friend, they take that role literally. You can tell the transition if you are friends with the guy as opposed to being the girl he is dating. If you are in his friend circle, he will be what a man should be: honest, blunt, cares just enough, and responsible. He will admit how pretty a girl is, or how busted she is. If you are his girl friend, he is the exact opposite: dishonest, secretive, barely cares, and depends on you for most things.
The difference between a man and a boy is pretty much very clear. A man can take care of you. A boy can't even take care of himself. A man will always take responsibility and blames only himself for his mistakes. A boy blames anyone and everyone but himself. A man always pays. A boy forgets his wallet. A man will open your car door. A boy will ask you yo drive. A man will strap it up no matter how much he doesn't like it until he wants a kid. A boy will tell you he'll pull out and tell you to buy the day after pill. A man will do anything to keep you from crying. A boy will count how many times he can have you cryin him a river in a week.
So what can turn a boy into a man? Definitely not any nagging from his girl. Patience is a virtue girls. You hold on for as long as he is worth it, and if it is meant to be, he will be man enough for you in time. Guys are very simple. Simple characteristics can make a boy happy and can make him see that he needs to be a "man" to keep such a perfect girl. Any signs of unwanted characteristics makes a boy think he has no reason to man up. What for? A whole bunch of things he doesn't want?
Every girl in the WORLD is looking for a man. Every girl swears that there isn't a man out there man enough. Every girl should just sit down somewhere and decide what their next step is going to be. Either be the woman to change that boy into a man, or move the hell on to the man that deserves you.
Boys will always be boys until they have to man up.
Girls seem to forget these days that it takes a real woman to bring out the MAN in her boyfriend.
the man friends.... being men....
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