Most guys are looking for girls that are wife material to be with, most likely because they know that they will be her top priority. And ADMIT IT, that's the most appeasing part about it because just like slutty girls in the club, secretly guys want attention. Not to mention, who wouldn't want to be top priority? Unfortunately we are completely retarded for doing such a thing since there is no rock on our finger, but it is our womanly ways I suppose. The funny thing is, that most girls are wife-ee material, BUT it takes a certain man to bring it out of her. The girls I see posing as wife material always do a little too much. Pay his bills, do his laundry, cook, stay home when he tells them too. That's wonderful that you are that devoted to your man, and honestly I find my instincts telling me that I should be doing stuff like that. BUT the fact of the matter is that when you push the limit like that, you have just given your man the benefit of the doubt, and he knows it. So he'll own it. He knows that you have put him up on this pedestal, and if he falls off, you will be the one who helps him get back on that sucker. Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free right? When woman do this, they leave no room for their guy to imagine how much GREATER being married to them can be. Why should they wonder? The woman is doing everything now with no ring, no commitment, nothing. I think it's cute, and sweet, and shows a lot about a woman who can put her own needs aside to satisfy her man, but honestly, I don't want to be the cow.
Every girl you meet in the world wants to think they are wife material. Rappers rap about it, singers sing about it, and guys you meet everywhere are talking about that girl he would "wife up." So why on earth do guys ask for something they want, but then act completely blind-sided when girls start talking about being married? That is what most girls in this society build themselves up for. And ladies why do you so quick to succumb to this state of "wife-ness" but then you aren't quick enough to realize when you are doing too much? Is it because we are being the cow? I mean I get that if it is so easy, why complicate things with marriage and commitment? And who the hell wants to be married in a society like ours anyways? Most of those commitments end in fights, paper work, and scheduled time with your kids. Not poppin' if you ask me.
I just feel that guys should stop asking for a girl to ride or die for them, or to be their wife-ee, if they aren't ready to consider the thoughts you put into her head by giving her names like that. I think us ladies should re-evaluate the men we put our lives on hold for and make sure he's truly worth it, and make sure he'd do the same for you if roles were switched up. Remember I told you love is lost? Well here is where you can test the theory, because if he LOVES you, then you won't feel you wifed up for no reason.
So if love barely exists, ladies, stop being the cow.
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