Are they really feasible? I would have to STRONGLY agree.
I know that everyone says they are impossible, but I beg to differ. I guess my life cannot suffice for the rest of the world, but I will say that my girlfriends and I have a TON of guy friends that are strictly in the "friend-zone" and they KNOW it. I am sure that if sex or anything of the sort came up, there would be a slight sense of uncomfortable feelings. That is my point, it would be uncomfortable because the guy is strictly in friend-zone. Any guy I put there, has no chance of crossing that line. That's why it's very important fellas, that if you want that girl to be yours, STAY AWAY from the friend-zone.
The other day, while making that annoying drive to work, I heard Ryan Seacrest on the radio discussing how he had heard there were co-ed dorms that allowed co-ed roomates. He said that a platonic relationship was impossible because whether they ever admit it or not, there will be a drunken night that will lead to other extra activities. That I understand. It's college. I remember the things I saw in college (I was more of an observer rather than a participator). Yet, I had MANY drunken nights with guy friends, and they were no where near the cookie jar. And besides that, I think that if a girl puts a guy in the "friend-zone", getting out of it is beyond difficult, nearly impossible, and basically "ni**a please".
Why do you think ex-boyfriends get put in the friend-zone once they are out of the picture? No matter how hot they are, how long you were with them, or how much you would love to jump back in, a SMART girl puts her ex in the friend-zone so he knows what he lost. It's all about who has the upper hand in the end, and who regrets losing the relationship in the first place, thus, you always put the old boyfriends in a category they will now have to regret for as long as you stay friends.
I think having guy friends keep me sane. Honestly, the only difference between me and the boys I hang out with, is their junk versus mine. I have lost all emotion inside, and boys never have them in the first place. Girls are so emotional..... so much crying..... bitchiness..... Not my fancy. I'm the only bitch I want to know. So it is easier to be friends with boys for me. Not to mention that I am very close to my dad, and he has taught me a lot about the way a boy thinks. I do envy that train of thought at times. Life would be so much easier if it simply revolved around sex and money.
So, all in all, in my personal point of view, platonic girl guy relationships are possible. In my eyes, I do not think of my guy friends in any other way but my guy friends. Do they have absurd or slightly sexual fantasies about me? God, I hope not, because some of the things I do around my guy friends are not sexy AT ALL, and I would feel EXTREMELY horrible if they did not realize that they would never get out of my friend-zone.....
Then again, I have no heart so....
The other day, while making that annoying drive to work, I heard Ryan Seacrest on the radio discussing how he had heard there were co-ed dorms that allowed co-ed roomates. He said that a platonic relationship was impossible because whether they ever admit it or not, there will be a drunken night that will lead to other extra activities. That I understand. It's college. I remember the things I saw in college (I was more of an observer rather than a participator). Yet, I had MANY drunken nights with guy friends, and they were no where near the cookie jar. And besides that, I think that if a girl puts a guy in the "friend-zone", getting out of it is beyond difficult, nearly impossible, and basically "ni**a please".
Why do you think ex-boyfriends get put in the friend-zone once they are out of the picture? No matter how hot they are, how long you were with them, or how much you would love to jump back in, a SMART girl puts her ex in the friend-zone so he knows what he lost. It's all about who has the upper hand in the end, and who regrets losing the relationship in the first place, thus, you always put the old boyfriends in a category they will now have to regret for as long as you stay friends.
I think having guy friends keep me sane. Honestly, the only difference between me and the boys I hang out with, is their junk versus mine. I have lost all emotion inside, and boys never have them in the first place. Girls are so emotional..... so much crying..... bitchiness..... Not my fancy. I'm the only bitch I want to know. So it is easier to be friends with boys for me. Not to mention that I am very close to my dad, and he has taught me a lot about the way a boy thinks. I do envy that train of thought at times. Life would be so much easier if it simply revolved around sex and money.
So, all in all, in my personal point of view, platonic girl guy relationships are possible. In my eyes, I do not think of my guy friends in any other way but my guy friends. Do they have absurd or slightly sexual fantasies about me? God, I hope not, because some of the things I do around my guy friends are not sexy AT ALL, and I would feel EXTREMELY horrible if they did not realize that they would never get out of my friend-zone.....
Then again, I have no heart so....
Published with Blogger-droid v1.6.5
No comments:
Post a Comment